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How to deal with intense emotions
Emotions are complex and messy for most of us. In actuality, I don't know many people who don’t get [...]
How to know if a need is relational or should be fulfilled by you
This topic was actually inspired by a question from a weekly reader of my newsletter. Here is what she reached [...]
Understanding the difference between having needs & being needy
Having needs can feel vulnerable Especially if you grew up in a home where your needs went unmet and you [...]
How to Thrive in a World that Overwhelms You (Being a Highly Sensitive Person)
Whether you're an HSP or not It is important to understand the trait of high sensitivity because 20% of the [...]
How to Silence the Inner Critical Voice and Find Peace of Mind
The cause of most suffering comes from the mind. An over-identification with thoughts, and how [...]
“Why do I keep attracting avoidant men?”
"Why do I keep attracting avoidant men?" I get asked this question all the time in my private [...]
Healing from burnout: what I learned from years of over-functioning
I am at the tail end of my third period of burnout in my career. To say I learn [...]
Depression Got the Best of Me
If you're on my email list, you probably know a bit about my story by now. But for those [...]
Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationships
Do you easily feel smothered in your relationships? Do you easily lose yourself in your relationships or become "addicted" [...]
3 Essential Skills to Building a Secure Relationship
Relationships have always been a struggle for me, and I get the sense I am not alone in this. [...]
Life after trauma: restoring an inner sense of safety & facing fear
I remember the first self-help book I read was when I was 15 years old. It was called "feel the [...]
10 signs you might be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)
Sensitive people are often perceived by society as delicate, weak or fragile. Someone who gets hurt easily that people [...]
6 ways Highly Sensitive People can step into their personal power
It feels like I have been trying to step into my personal power my whole life. Somewhere along the way [...]
How a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) becomes a lone wolf
I remember being a young boy, before I knew I was HSP, and always feeling different from other people. I [...]
The 5 best things about being a gay man
Growing up I spent so much time and energy trying to hide who I was because I bought into [...]